Journey of life..

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim

Too sad to think about when marriage life is not a wife or even a husband would want to live in anymore. Strange that lately I’ve been hearing or to be exact a listener to these domestic problems. One after another. It started off in August (my last entry in Aug was on this), someone who is really dear and near to me. It was heart breaking to watch your loved ones to cry over disappointment of what one expected marriage to be which is to bring happiness throughout life.

Don’t know whether it's just a coincidence.Most of them didn't show any sign. Maybe they have been trying hard enough to work things out till the extend of unbearable, they decided to tell it off to someone.

Personally, I don't really want to get involve with peoples marriage problem but you wouldn't know what they have been through before they came to you. Perhaps I can provide temporary relief,even if its not that much.

After the 3rd case, I started to broke into tears along with them. I couldn't held my tears when I put myself in their shoes. Marriage happiness and laughter is no longer part of their daily life. Some ended up avoiding each other with silence, while some got into endless arguments and grudges. Some may pray hoping for brighter days to come, some gave up hope long before. Its even heart breaking to look deeply into their childrens' eyes, which said to be the symbol of their love. Even sad if this adorable babies were left behind because their parents are carried away with their problems.

I don't think I'm the best person to give them advice but at the very least, a shoulder to cry on. The best that I can give is for them to put a lot of patience, try to fix things by a peaceful and rationale discussion to resolve matters and endless pray to GOD for the best way to the end of it.

Maybe it is fated that they will go through this kind of life journey. Maybe it is lesson to be learnt that things may happen to you later.I have a lot to share with bride-to-be on what to expect. Marriage life is not just being attached to our life-partner, but it takes you beyond that,and at times, we shouldn't be standing strict to our principles, there should be forgive & forget and then you will be able to move on..
Sometimes when I was driving alone, I kept of remembering word by word of frustration. I couldn't imagine if it happens to me..nauzubillah